If you don't know the story of how Megan and Andy met,
you have to go here
first to find out how it happened!
It's very integral to the proposal story!
All done?
Good.
Let's get started.
(it's a bit lengthy - but aren't all good stories?!?)
Back around April 2000, I was wracking
my brain trying to come up with the perfect proposal. If you
know me at all, you'll know two things I pride myself on are
my creativity and originality. Whatever I did - it would be
at the very least - creative.
That's when it came to me - the ransom notes!
- one of the first things I did to Megan while I was attempting
to woo her. Only this time instead of kidnapping some Intel
doll - I would be the kidnappee. But where to do it?
Well, we have always loved the Museum
of Science and Industry and Megan had mentioned that it's
been a long time since she's been there and maybe they could
go soon? It would be a perfect site.
And thus began - The Plan.
The next problem - how to get the ransom notes
around the museum? That's when the second flash came - friends
and family! I would get a bunch of relatives and friends to
be at each "stop" and each group would have another
ransom note. Each ransom note would be a cryptic clue that she
would have to decipher in order to find the next one. All the
note-keepers were instructed not to give any hints and when
Megan figured it out, they would join the entourage behind Megan
so that by the end - she had about 30 people with her!
Now with The Plan semi-ironed out,
I had to find out who would be willing to help - first I called
my loyal chums, then my family, then Megan's family and her
friends. This proved to be very fun for me to torment Megan,
because instead of trying to be sneaky and going through her
rolodex for numbers - I would just call and ask for them.
"What's Claire's number?"
"Why do you need her number?
She lives in Texas!"
She knew something was up and that it most likely
had something to do with the proposal but she didn't want to
know (and it's a good thing because I wouldn't have told her!)
So I rounded up about 30 people to participate, but now I needed
a date. August 19, 2000 was the initial date thrown into the
ring, and I was sure I'd have to go through 20 dates trying
to get one that everyone had free.
AMAZINGLY enough - everyone was available!!!
Next I had to make sure that the people who were
coming from Missouri, Texas and California had lodging and transportation.
Then I had to come up with a sufficiently convincing lie in
order to get Megan to the museum. This proved to be much harder
than anticipated. Megan and I had just discussed our funds the
week before so when Su informed Megan that she would like to
go to the museum on August 19th - "Sorry, we're broke"
was the reply.
Hmmm.
"But I have free tickets to the 10:30
am Titanic show", was Su's next brilliant lie.
"But we should go to karate practice!",
was Megan's next unconscious attempt at thwarting The
Plan.
"We can skip it!", I said, wondering
if Megan knew The Plan all along and was trying
to give me an ulcer.
Somewhere in all this Plan induced
mayhem, Megan and I found time to go ring browsing. Not shopping,
because I was deadset against Megan just picking out her ring.
Stating her likes and dislikes as well and a general idea of
what she would like - sure. But not pointing and saying, "Buy
me that!" After the first trip I knew what I was going
to get. I went back a few times to pick out the diamond and
the sidestones then they were off to be made from scratch. It
would be ready for pickup August 16th!
Talk about cutting it close!
Two days and counting.
Ring in pocket, I made and printed out all the ransom notes
and got envelopes and made maps for everyone and schedules so
everyone would be on time and not get to a post early. Then
I brought them all, including the video camera for posterity,
over to Dave's house who was my right hand man in all this -
without him, The Plan would not have been. I gave
Dave some last minute instructions and wished him well in getting
all the people arranged and in place.
August 18, 2000
The Plan is brought to its knees.
The night before, there is...a fight. About what is not important,
what is important is that The Plan almost didn't
happen. As Megan and I were talking, Megan's roommate, Jen,
called me in a panic.
"How am I supposed to get ready
and leave in the morning if Megan is over here??"
"Don't worry", I replied. "I'll
get her to come over."
Luckily, through persistent pleading and begging,
I was able to persuade Megan to come over and make up.
Unfortunately, I slept about 1½ hours that
night.
At the most.
I busied myself writing thank you notes to all
the participants and a nice letter to my Mom. The hour from
6-7 a.m. was spent in bed staring at the clock, waiting for
the alarm to go off.
The next major hitch in The Plan
was the fact that the Air and Water show was the same day. Everyone
was worried that traffic would be a nightmare. Myself included.
So when we left early, I did not expect to run into....NO
traffic. That's right, we breezed on down the highway. Well,
not exactly breezed, because when I realized that we were very
early, I reduced speed to about 45. Megan slept the whole way
there. Thank goodness.
Phone Trouble
A big part of The Plan was notifying
Su by cell phone when we were about 10 minutes away from the
Museum so everyone would know to take their positions. Well,
it's hard to get a signal when you're deep in a museum.
So I was not able to contact Su.
And we were 30 minutes early.
Thus begins...the panic attack.
I could not BELIEVE that after SIX months of planning,
it would all go down the toilet because of a crappy cell phone!!
So, after we parked, I proceeded to fake a panic attack, hoping
to stall Megan for a while.
Well, it wasn't really faked.
It was pretty much a real panic attack - complete
with sweaty palms and racing heart.
After about 20 minutes, we went inside while I
desperately searched for someone I could signal and let them
know Megan was here. Once inside I saw Dave and Becky! Oh no!
While faking a relapse, I turned Megan so her back was to them.
They finally disappeared into the gift shop. I led Megan to
the pickup window where we were to meet Su and excused myself
to the restroom. On the way I found Ed, one of my oldest friends,
but a friend that Megan has never met. With some last second
pointers, and a video camera on REC, Ed went to find
Megan...
Ed's clue led her to...(click the icon to see
the ransom note)